Unveiling the Path to Transformation- Sounds serious!

Shalom dear friends,

After years of traversing the winding paths of self-discovery and guiding numerous souls on their transformative journeys, I often find myself pondering a fundamental question: What is "the work"?

You may be smirking to yourself as how many of us have found ourselves exclaiming “I’m doing ‘the work’” as if there is this universal understanding of what that means, what’s even more humorous is that in certain circles there seems to be this pseudo understanding (look up pseudo it’s a good word to know) about what the work actually means.

What’s actually quite hilarious is “the work” seems to begin to be this barometer of how people begin to measure themselves or others and there seems to be this tendency that winds up affecting different aspects of life- shidduchim, marriages, siblings, parents, - deep personal visceral relationships where “The work” seems to be this yard stick or ruler that we grace reality on.

A further question may be, can one actually know ‘The Work’ if they havent done some kind of healing work, therapy, workshops, breathwork, psychedelics etc. Can you know the work if you haven't worked? Lehavdil, it becomes a similar catch-22 where can I actually explain shabbat without experiencing shabbat (or shabbos). Can I actually know what Torah is without actual learning?

So clearly I have some energy around this topic and let’s see if we can give it a breath or two…

Let’s begin,

The term "the work" holds a resonance beyond mere words; it embodies a path—an odyssey/adventure—toward personal evolution and spiritual awakening. It’s the sacred journey of unearthing, embracing, and elevating the essence of one’s being. It is deeply personal as is relational. It is multidimensional and affects the physical, mental, emotional, spiritual and more.

Allow me to share some insights I’ve gathered :

A way of life

"The work" isn't merely a routine or a task list. It's a sacred covenant—an ever-evolving journey within, accompanied by the gentle whispers of the divine. It's a conscious commitment to self-exploration, a deep dive into the oceans of one's consciousness to navigate the tides of thoughts, emotions, and experiences.

Between me, myself , and I

In essence, "the work" is about meeting ourselves in the rawest form possible—peeling back layers, confronting shadows, and embracing the light within. It’s a voyage that takes us from the periphery of existence to the core of our being.

The work beckons us to confront our innermost fears, limiting beliefs, and past traumas. It’s about understanding that healing starts from within, a process of forgiveness, acceptance, and allowing ourselves to grow beyond the confines of our comfort zones.

To Grow my-self up

What I've come to realize is that "the work" is an amalgamation of courage and vulnerability—a quest to be authentically you, to own your story, and to cultivate a compassionate heart toward yourself and others

It is being open to receive

Through workshops, collaborations, and profound interactions, I've witnessed individuals embarking on this journey of "the work." They've tapped into reservoirs of inner strength, transcended boundaries, and forged pathways toward self-liberation.

and guide myself back home

The tools of "the work"—be it breathwork, mindfulness, psychodrama, or the wisdom of Torah—serve as guiding stars illuminating the path to self-realization. They’re the instruments that help navigate the seas of self-exploration and transformation.

to be more whole

At the heart of "the work" lies a commitment to tikkun hanefesh—the repair of the soul. It’s a journey that echoes the sacred verses, resonating with the belief that every step toward healing brings us closer to the divine within.

So, dear fellow travelers on this path, I invite you to explore, embrace, and embark on the journey of "the work."  What it can actually mean.  

“ A way of life, between me, myself and I, to grow myself up.  It is being open to receive and guide yourself back home to be more whole.”

May this expedition lead us to greater awareness, inner peace, and a profound connection to our purpose.

In gratitude and blessings,

-Moshe Haim